Wednesday, May 8, 2019

What Mother's Day Means to a Battered Child




As Mother's Day rapidly approaches, social media posts gush love for that special mom and all she did for you growing up. And, then there are your very sad posts about missing your wonderful mom who resides in Heaven now. I can only imagine what either feels like since my mom was neither loving nor wonderful when she was alive. That aside, I am grateful that so many of you feel or felt loved and supported by the most important woman in your early life.

I'm long past feeling sorry for myself and have a great deal of time invested in understanding and appreciating what the bigger picture means for me. I believe I chose my mom because she was mentally ill and couldn't protect me from an abusive father. I trust that there are lessons that I wanted to learn and that a woman with such limitations would be just the catapult I needed in order to find my own strength. My soul directed me toward her; she was a great teacher and I am eternally grateful.

So, if like me, you find the celebration of  Mother's Day a bit foreign, maybe you, too, will remember why you chose your mother. There is a reason and you need only to recall in order to tap into that precious higher meaning.

By the way, I am a mom. I can't imagine not having the gift of a child. His soul chose me; it hasn't always been easy. Like the rest of us, he's looking for his greatness and he will learn from me either by how well - or how poorly - I live my life.

Happy Mother's Day!

Medium, Mentor, Healer, Speaker and Author of The Other Side of the Bayou, Connie is available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling and movement/release of negative energy, she identifies and cuts unhealthy energetic cords both in private and professional life. Releasing these harmful energetic connections allows us to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

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Private one-on-one and Couple’s Sessions (cutting energetic cords)
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Available for Group Readings

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Monday, April 3, 2017

WHAT IF?


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Recently asked how I prevailed through my violently abusive childhood and equally as troubled adulthood (as chronicled in my book, The Other Side of the Bayou), I paused a moment and then replied.

During one of my lowest points, I began to ask myself a very simple question. I hadn't had the privilege to ask it previously as I was way too busy trying to stay alive. "What if...?" 

I had become so pushed into a corner of victimization that instead of fighting my way out as usual, I finally conceded to the fact that I needed to come up with a new plan - a new attitude. My old perspective clearly sucked and I finally realized that I was as much a part of the problem as those by whom I was surrounded. Not only was it a come-to-Jesus moment, it changed my life completely.

What if I left an abusive job or relationship?

What if I decided to look for the good in every day, even the tiniest evidence?

What if I allowed myself to realize my own power and see how I gave it away too freely?

What if I searched for the truth of who I am at the highest soul level?

And the MOST IMPORTANT "what if"?

What if I saw my life experiences as schooling and not punishments?

My life began to take an upward swing from that moment on. Not always easy by any stretch of the imagination, but so much more understanding, compassion, love and joy.

What if...?
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Psychic Medium, Remote Viewer, Mentor, Healer, Speaker and Author of The Other Side of the Bayou, Connie is available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling and movement/release of negative energy, she identifies and cuts unhealthy energetic cords both in private and professional life. Releasing these harmful energetic connections allows us to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

Services
Mentoring:
SoulSync ReLync for the psychically gifted
Under My Wing for everyday challenges
Private one-on-one and Couple’s Sessions (cutting energetic cords)
Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home
Available for Group Readings

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Tuesday, June 2, 2015

REMOTE VIEWING: MURDER

I had the opportunity to contribute my REMOTE VIEWING skills to the District Attorney's office on a twenty year-old cold case in San Diego, CA. 
Remote viewing is a mental faculty that allows a perceiver (a "viewer") to describe or give details about a target that is inaccessible to normal senses due to distance, time, or shielding. For example, a viewer might be asked to describe a location on the other side of the world, which he or she has never visited; or a viewer might describe an event that happened long ago; or describe an object sealed in a container or locked in a room; or perhaps even describe a person or an activity; all without being told anything about the target -- not even its name or designation.
From this explanation, it is obvious that remote viewing is related to so-called psi (also known as "psychic" or "parapsychological") phenomena such as clairvoyance or telepathy. Whatever it is that seems to make it possible for human beings to do remote viewing is probably the same underlying ability that makes such things as clairvoyance work.

I loved the challenging process of building intuitive profiles (my term for psychically detecting information without knowing the individual or anything about the case), which were created to offer the detective new investigative directions.

With only the name of the victim, I "saw", as if viewing a video, the murder taking place and also the location in which the victim was found (living room couch).  I purposely did not want to know any details beforehand. 

I quickly identified the murder weapon (knife), saw multiple stab wounds perpetrated by more than one knife and was drawn to the victim’s arm and the rigor mortis position.

Once I accurately identified the crime and the weapons, I could see I’d earned  the detective’s great curiosity and trust.  I then requested known names associated with the suspect.  Ex-wives, girlfriends, mother, father, children, etc.  I was able to ascertain a great deal of information from my intuitive profiling, thus building a personal dossier not yet completely discovered by the detective.

My next goal was to be taken to the crime scene.  The detective obliged. There I ‘saw’ the struggle between a man and a woman who appeared to be in relationship.  I sensed the man was in a jealous rage over her affections for another man. With more than one knife from the kitchen, he stabbed the woman multiple times.

As though I were watching a movie, I saw the suspect standing outside the living room window in the side yard.  A man, whom I believed to be the suspect’s best friend,  was tossing some of the victim’s personal articles (evidence) out the window while the suspect
threw them over a chain link fence that separated the side from the back yard.

The suspect then hopped the fence and began placing the articles in a large, black plastic bag.  The articles contained smears of the victim’s blood; as the articles were tossed into the back yard, blood stained the top of the fence.

I suddenly felt as though I was a camera filming a close-up of the suspect from his dirty brown work boots, upward to the name patch on his navy blue uniform work shirt.  Because he stood at an oblique angle, I could not read the name nor see his full face.  I did, however see the build, approximate height and hair color of the suspect.

The last bit of information I psychically received was how the suspect got rid of the evidence, none of which had been located nor recovered at the time I worked on the case.  I 'saw' the suspect stuff the plastic bag filled with the victim's bloody personal items into the wheel well of an old truck.  The truck was moved from the home of the victim and set on fire.

Some of what I ‘saw” could be corroborated by the detective, but much of the information I supplied was new to him.

Unfortunately, the detective retired shortly after our collaboration so I have no word of the end result.  I often wonder if the case was placed back into the cold case files with so many ghostly unsolved mysteries.


Intuitive Profiler, Remote Viewer, Clairvoyant-Medium, Mentor, Healer, Speaker and Writer, Connie is available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling and movement/release of negative energy, she identifies and cuts unhealthy energetic cords both in private and professional life. Releasing these harmful energetic connections allows us to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

Services:
Mentoring:  SoulSync ReLync for Healers, Under My Wing for Women Only
Private and Couple’s Sessions (cutting energetic cords)
Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home
Author of the forthcoming book, The Other Side of the Bayou

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Tuesday, May 19, 2015

THE GOLDEN THORN

You are not - and have never - been a victim - at least not from SOUL STANCE.

Soul Stance is that place (and moment) before you jumped into this body - this life. Your Soul is brilliant and only places you in situations that can offer opportunities to grow.

Soul Stance
"GROW?!", you yell, rather loudly. Yep. Grow.

Each person, place or situation you attract is an opportunity to learn about - and overcome - early childhood (and even past life) wounds and subsequent energetic/emotional imprints.

"BUT, MY PARENTS ARE THE ONES WHO CAUSED THESE WOUNDS!  WHY IS THIS NOW MY RESPONSIBILITY?!", you scream, much louder.

Uh huh, yep, it's your life, your choice, your responsibility.  That's a big 10-4, good buddy.

Now, think GOLDEN THORN. Picture this: a large golden thorn stuck in your side. It nags at you and is a constant reminder that something needs to be removed from your life. You reposition yourself so that you have a reprieve, albeit short lived. Then, BAM!  You 're sideswiped by what someone said or did, or you feel victimized by a situation or event. Golden Thorn. Get it yet?

These people were HIRED by you from Soul Stance. Yep, you read that right. You hired them and when they perfectly play the role you assigned them, it gets your attention, and often in a BIG, IRRITATING way.

The Golden Thorn
OK, you say, I'll play along. Thanks for humoring me for a few more moments.

Back to the Golden Thorn (that person or situation that really gets/got under your skin). You feel so hot and bothered that now you want to FIRE this person.  If I hired them, you reason, I can damn well fire them!  You are correct - you have every right to hand them walking papers.

WARNING:  if you fire the “offender” before you learn what they came to teach, you will repeat this experience again and again.  It's only when we stop and do an earnest self-inventory and learn what’s on offer that we can remove this Thorn.
Take all the time you need. I believe we have many lifetimes in which to learn, heal and evolve.  Or, do it NOW.

One last tidbit.

CUTTING ENERGETIC CORDS disconnects you from the source of emotional, mental and physical pain. In floods insight; awareness infiltrates our consciousness... YOU GET IT!


Healer, Clairvoyant-Medium, Mentor, Intuitive Profiler, Speaker and Writer, Connie is available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling and movement/release of negative energy, she identifies and cuts unhealthy energetic cords both in private and professional life. Releasing these harmful energetic connections allows us to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

Services:
Mentoring: SoulSync ReLync for Healers, Under My Wing for Women Only
Private and Couple’s Sessions (cutting energetic cords)
Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home

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Thursday, March 12, 2015

HOW OUR PETS ENERGETICALLY SHIFT WITH US

Very often, clients tell me that they experience illness at the same time as their pets. The symptoms, which are quite similar to the pet, cause them to wonder if the animal is absorbing their trauma.



In December 2014, I had severe stomach cramping, which lasted the better part of a month. I knew I was going through a big energetic shift and that it was accompanied by a physical clearing. This happens to me periodically, because to do the healing energy work I do, I must remain clear and keep my personal vibration high.  I knew to go with the flow and didn't feel the need to rush to a doctor.


My 15-year old cat, Roux, began presenting with the same symptoms. It was quite serious, as his small body can't handle the same degree of pain as a human. So, off to the vet we went. After a series of blood tests, he was diagnosed with pancreatitis. The vet scratched his head while reading the lab results, saying they'd never seen so many cases of feline pancreatitis as in the previous two weeks - ever!

This helped me realize that our pets may not be taking on our illnesses as much as they are actually clearing and shifting to keep up with us. Wow!  It suddenly became so clear.


Roux is my familiar, which means he's traveled many lifetimes with me. He helps me do my work in this life and looks out for me in his own way. In order to keep up with me energetically, he has to release old energy to make space for the new, higher vibration frequencies.

Consider this when/if you and your pet become ill simultaneously. The cause of your dis-ease may be an energetic shift. Remember, however, that physical symptoms can be treated to offer comfort to you and/or your pet-friend.


Healer, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Intuitive Profiler, Speaker and Writer, Connie is available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling and movement/release of negative energy, she identifies and cuts unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these harmful energetic connections allows us to function at a higher vibrational frequency.
Services:
Mentoring
Private and Couple’s Sessions (cutting energetic cords)
Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net


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Sunday, November 23, 2014

TEACHER, TEACHER

I've had two great teachers in my life. One likely had no idea what a huge impact she made on me while the other, I believe, knows full well.

Mrs. Schank, my fourth grade teacher (McDonogh No. 14, Jefferson Avenue and Chestnut Street, New Orleans,LA., 1963), was a very kind young woman. When she noticed that I often had no milk money, she would quietly hand me a buffalo nickel and a shiny penny. She was always discreet and didn't want to embarrass me in front of the other children. I loved her for her ability to sense and care about my feelings.  I wasn't accustomed to such gentle and sweet exchanges in my home.

Regretfully, I don't have a photo of Mrs. Schank.
This is a current photo of McDonough 14 Elementary School.
When Mrs. Schank noticed the hole in the sole of my shoe, she offered to buy me a new pair of school shoes.  I remember panicking at her offer; I was well aware that my father abhorred charity of any kind.  Mama referred to him as "proud", but even at that age, I felt it had more to do with his alcoholic paranoia.

The day President Kennedy was shot, our school principal announced it over the intercom. Mrs. Schank began to softly cry.  I began to cry, as well, even though I don't think I fully understood the ramifications of the news.  What I did understand, however, was that my dear teacher was in pain, and that hurt me.

Wherever you are today, Mrs. Schank, please know that you were the first person to demonstrate compassion and unselfish love.  Thank you from the bottom if my heart.  I will never, ever forget you.

My second great teacher is also my mentor, Judith Linden.  She came into my life when I was ready to embark on my spiritual path. Even though I was living in San Diego by that time, she is ironically from my hometown of New Orleans.

My Mentor, Judith Linden
A tall stately woman, Judith is absolute cosmic magic personified!  Her vast knowledge of Spirit, Soul and the Universe was what I yearned for and she was willing to share it with me.

Judith was instrumental in helping me define and refine my raw gifts and abilities. She taught me about energetic integrity and strong boundaries. She stressed that healing occurs at the Soul level and that psychic ability alone does not create true healing.

Above and beyond all the mystical knowledge and wisdom she imparted, she helped me embrace this beautiful part of who I am, even as some of my closest loved ones were rejecting my gift.

Judith's absolute devotion to the Soul is more than inspiring to me.  It is the template that helped me step into my Soul purpose on the planet at this time.  She models authenticity, integrity, humility and unconditional love.  She is my spiritual compass and I will forever be grateful.  Saying thank you is hardly enough. Words are limiting, but then, Judith knows what's in my heart. 


Healer, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Intuitive Profiler, Speaker and Writer, Connie is available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling and movement/release of negative energy, she identifies and cuts unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these harmful energetic connections allows us to function at a higher vibrational frequency. Her Mentoring Programs are private, one-on-one and in-person or by phone.

Services:
Mentoring
Private and Couple’s Sessions (cutting energetic cords)
Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home

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Tuesday, October 14, 2014

KEEP CALM AND FIND A MENTOR

I was drawn out onto the large upstairs deck, with its spectacular mountain view.  Each day something new lay upon the deck boards in the same spot.  Small animal teeth and bones, shells and wings.  I was puzzled and very, very captivated.

Each morning at around five o’clock a large crow (or raven) flew right past our bedroom window, which was on the second story. I “knew” it was very large because of the swooshing sound its wings made as it flapped majestically toward a destination, which was frequently becoming our balcony.
One day, my then-husband very quietly, “You know this bird is leaving these things for you, don’t you?” I was shocked to hear those words from his mouth. He had long ago renounced all things religious or spiritual. To have him recognize and acknowledge this phenomenon was very validating. I’d believed in the invisible since early childhood even if I hadn't put it into a form of spiritual practice. Now this man, who normally had no belief in such things, was seeing and feeling what I was experiencing – a goosebumply sense that the bird was preparing me for something new, something big, and something unthought-of.
I was still resisting my inherent psychic abilities.  I knew I was gifted, but had no idea what purpose it might serve and had not even begun to investigate spirituality. Could this raven be bringing gifts to jog a past life memory designed to jump start my path in this life?
I began to interpret my dreams each morning as a gateway into the psychic realm.  I learned so much about myself through that portal… and I wanted more.  I began to meditate for hours a day.  That was also very magical and led me to many past-life discoveries… and, I wanted more.


One fall evening, I announced to my husband that I wanted a mentor – someone who had all the gifts and abilities I possessed, but with a great deal more wisdom and experience.  Within ONE HOUR of my assertion, the phone rang.  It was a woman from New Orleans (my hometown) whom I met once when she taught a workshop in San Diego. She was calling to invite me to her next San Diego presentation.  I accepted immediately… and I wanted more.  

I inquired as to whether she mentored.  Yes, in fact, she took on students whom she felt were gifted but needed guidance.  Yes, she would take me under her wing. 

My mentor opened doors that I may not have found without her loving and skillful guidance.  Her infinite wisdom led me down cosmic corridors and thresholds that I could not have imagined. It was an initiation that I will never, ever forget.  I am forever grateful.

If, like me, you feel you will flourish under the guidance of an Intuitive Spiritual Mentor, please contact me.  Let's discuss your desires and allow me to get a feel for your innate psychic abilities.

Are you ready to step into your Divine Self?  Do you want more?

Healer, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Intuitive Profiler, Speaker and Writer, Connie is available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling and movement/release of negative energy, she identifies and cuts unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these harmful energetic connections allows us to function at a higher vibrational frequency.
Services:
Mentoring
Private and Couple’s Sessions (cutting energetic cords)
Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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