Showing posts with label resentment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label resentment. Show all posts

Wednesday, July 17, 2013

WHAT'S YOUR "CURRENCY"?

Are you always AGREEABLE as a form of CURRENCY?
Human nature is infinitely intriguing.  Paying close attention, you may notice that certain individuals use what I like to call "currency" as a means to an end.

There are many forms of currency.  For example, "Joe" is described as loving, kind and always there for others but never asks for anything in return, and never burdens others with his concerns.  He is seen by many as a wonderful person, in deed.  However, underneath all the giving (of his time, advice, gifts, etc.) there may be a secret desire to have others like or love him.  He may not be consciously aware of this, but it is there and guiding his actions, all the same.

Do you give GIFTS as a form of CURRENCY?
Using this example, we can see that Joe's offer is not unconditional, although on the surface it may appear so, because he never overtly asks for anything in return.

Do you use HUMOR as a form of CURRENCY?
Ah, but he DOES want something; to be accepted, liked or even loved.  If he doesn't feel a return on his "investment", he may become resentful or quietly angry. Over time, this feeling of unreciprocated "kindness" builds and begins to show up in his passive aggressive actions.

What's your currency?  Challenging ourselves to look below the surface of our actions is healthy and enlightening.

Take the CURRENCY CHALLENGE.  Look at yourself; see what's there; do not judge what you see; grow from the discovery.  
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Saturday, January 12, 2013

RELEASE




"We must always change, renew, rejuvenate ourselves; otherwise, we harden."



- Goethe

When we carry resentments we only injure ourselves.  Being hurt or angry doesn’t change the other person or situation.  It is what it is.  The only thing a toxic emotion changes is US.  That’s right… it changes our ability to move ahead unencumbered. 

We will carry these resentments until we realize that we are giving away our power, or said another way, when we realize that we have an energy leak.  If you fill your gas tank (i.e., emotional energy) for a most pleasant drive through the ever-beautiful countryside, you do not want a leak in your tank.  You need the full tank to assist you in your joyous exploration (and resulting rejuvenation) and then to get you home again.  

Release and Be Free
Home represents the Self.  In order to be more fully in touch with our Self, we must make a choice, many choices, in fact, along the way.  Life is not a passive activity.  When we choose to be present with someone, or in any given situation, we need access to our emotional energy.  

Reclaim that part of your emotional energy which you have given away.  Try this:  write a letter to that person with whom you still have angry, hurt and/or resentful feelings.  Say whatever you have fantasized expressing; be brutal if you feel that way, just be sure to let it all out!  Then, burn the letter (at the beach, on your porch, in the backyard) and witness your toxic emotions go up in smoke and ashes. Say a prayer of release or words of peace to yourself and also about the other person/situation.   The Universe will absorb the energy, hurting no one.  

Ah, you feel renewed and at peace.  The charge to that person/situation has already begun to lessen.  You have reclaimed your power and you are free.