HOW DOES YOUR GARDEN GROW?

"This outward spring and garden are a reflection of the inward garden."
- Rumi

What’s growing in your internal garden?  Whatever it may be, you can rest assured that what you are attracting into your life (people, situations, etc.) is a DIRECT REFLECTION.

What's in Your Garden?

Like attracts like…right?  So, if you don’t like what your life is all about, then it may be time to plant a new garden.  It’s that simple, and that complex.

Most of us simply project out shadow side (the stuff we abhor about ourselves) onto the nearest unwitting person.  “You aren't compassionate enough; you are trying to move this relationship along too quickly; you never listen”.  Get it?    

It’s not pretty, folks.  In fact it’s a train wreck!  Making someone else responsible for your unresolved issues never gets you where you truly want to be.  That train always pulls into a desolate station in the middle of a cold and dreary night. 

Lest we not forget, however, we are the gardeners.  We have the final say so and if we don’t like what we see…we can change it!  Take an honest inventory of your earliest upbringing – that’s where the weeds took root.  We must learn to ask for help if need be.  Let’s remove the weeds, till and fertilize the soil and get busy planting the type of seeds that will reap the bountiful harvest we all deserve. 

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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PAIN: Badge of Honor or Family Crest?

What's Your Badge?

Ever meet someone who constantly complains?  It’s either the ex that screwed them over (now you’re just somebody that I used to know), the boss that overlooked them for a promotion or the husband/wife who simply does not understand them.  Oh, and how about that darn nagging backache/headache, etc. that just gets In the way of all the things you want/need to accomplish?  Are YOU that person?  

If so, it might be helpful to ask yourself this:  Are you hanging onto old emotional/physical pain as a Badge of Honor?  In other words, are you over-identified with the pain?  If you aren’t sure who you’d be without the pain, then the answer is YES.  

It might also be a matter of carrying on the Family Crest so as to be recognized or acknowledged because of pain.  The mother who constantly has a “nervous attack” rendering her helpless for the day garners sympathy and attention, the father who never seems to get relief (as does his family due to his constant complaining) from the pain in his lower back becomes glorified for his heroic actions out in the field.

What Does Your Crest Say About You?

It is true (at least in my book) that suffering IS optional.  If I am in physical pain, I look at where it is in my body then associate it to the chakra located nearest that site.  I know that there is stagnant energy there, creating a buildup much like a damn holds back water.  Clearing that chakra helps the energy flow, thus helping to release the physical pain. 

Emotional pain IS a teacher.  When I am overtaken by any emotion, I tend to go back to the past to see where it emanates.   I can promise you that it is rooted in an old belief that no longer serves your forward movement. Clearing that belief frees us from the repetitive loop of negative and fearful thoughts.  

If you are tired, really tired of lugging around the weight of the PAST, learn more about what you can do to help yourself.  Health - emotional, physical, spiritual and mental – is an inside job.

Is it time to discard that old dusty badge and retire that heavy crest?  

If you need assistance – ASK!  

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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WHEN A HEART BREAKS IT DON'T BREAK EVEN

When people break up, whether it is a romantic love relationship, a friendship or even a business partnership there is often pain.  

“I'm still alive but I'm barely breathing
Just prayed to a God that I don't believe in
'Cause I got time while she got freedom
'Cause when a heart breaks, no, it don't break even”

The Script, Breakeven

Why is it that in some cases the one who wishes to break away doesn’t even bother to say goodbye, much less offer an explanation for the departure?  What happens to the love and respect that once (appeared to) burned so brightly?  Today, the catchy term, "ghosting" is used.  It refers to ending a romantic relationship by cutting off all contact and ignoring the former partner’s attempts to reach out.

I’ve given this topic lots of thought over the last few years.  Running away is easiest, at least in the moment.  No confrontation, no excuses, no nothing.  A vanishing act, however un-messy for the runner, can create a great deal of confusion for the one left behind.  Wondering what went wrong or what could have been different, the “dumpee” may feel very confused, responsible and hurt.

Relationships grow and morph.  Sometimes the participants evolve together and sometimes they don’t.  The one who leaves unannounced is often the one who refuses to evolve through the connection.  They may be clinging to old familiar behavior patterns that produce the same results each time.  Unable to see the cause and effect principle at play, they blame and run.

CLICK HERE to WITNESS LOVE KEPT ALIVE BY KINDNESS

There is a better way!  Taking personal responsibility for our words and actions is a great start.  Asking ourselves this crucial question, “Why did I magnetize this person/situation into my life?” is a powerful way to move forward with LOVE and KINDNESS.  

People part; it happens.  What if, rather than running, we expressed our true feelings and THEN left with love still intact?  It may feel like a different love, more friendly than romantic, for example, but LOVE is LOVE.  It is the goodness that fills our hearts, the gratitude for the unique experience with this particular person, the gentleness and compassion that allows us to show empathy for others.  What if…

Pictured above:  Marina Abramovic and Ulay started an intense love story in the 70s, performing art out of the van they lived in. When they felt the relationship had run its course, they decided to walk the Great Wall of China, each from one end, meeting for one last big hug in the middle and never seeing each other again.

At her 2010 MoMa retrospective Marina performed ‘The Artist Is Present’ as part of the show, where she shared a minute of silence with each stranger who sat in front of her. Ulay arrived without her knowing and this is what happened.

http://zengarage.com.au/2013/03/marina-abramovic-and-ulay/

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Medium, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing in your business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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