WHEN A HEART BREAKS IT DON'T BREAK EVEN

When people break up, whether it is a romantic love relationship, a friendship or even a business partnership there is often pain.  

“I'm still alive but I'm barely breathing
Just prayed to a God that I don't believe in
'Cause I got time while she got freedom
'Cause when a heart breaks, no, it don't break even”

The Script, Breakeven

Why is it that in some cases the one who wishes to break away doesn’t even bother to say goodbye, much less offer an explanation for the departure?  What happens to the love and respect that once (appeared to) burned so brightly?  Today, the catchy term, "ghosting" is used.  It refers to ending a romantic relationship by cutting off all contact and ignoring the former partner’s attempts to reach out.

I’ve given this topic lots of thought over the last few years.  Running away is easiest, at least in the moment.  No confrontation, no excuses, no nothing.  A vanishing act, however un-messy for the runner, can create a great deal of confusion for the one left behind.  Wondering what went wrong or what could have been different, the “dumpee” may feel very confused, responsible and hurt.

Relationships grow and morph.  Sometimes the participants evolve together and sometimes they don’t.  The one who leaves unannounced is often the one who refuses to evolve through the connection.  They may be clinging to old familiar behavior patterns that produce the same results each time.  Unable to see the cause and effect principle at play, they blame and run.

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There is a better way!  Taking personal responsibility for our words and actions is a great start.  Asking ourselves this crucial question, “Why did I magnetize this person/situation into my life?” is a powerful way to move forward with LOVE and KINDNESS.  

People part; it happens.  What if, rather than running, we expressed our true feelings and THEN left with love still intact?  It may feel like a different love, more friendly than romantic, for example, but LOVE is LOVE.  It is the goodness that fills our hearts, the gratitude for the unique experience with this particular person, the gentleness and compassion that allows us to show empathy for others.  What if…

Pictured above:  Marina Abramovic and Ulay started an intense love story in the 70s, performing art out of the van they lived in. When they felt the relationship had run its course, they decided to walk the Great Wall of China, each from one end, meeting for one last big hug in the middle and never seeing each other again.

At her 2010 MoMa retrospective Marina performed ‘The Artist Is Present’ as part of the show, where she shared a minute of silence with each stranger who sat in front of her. Ulay arrived without her knowing and this is what happened.

http://zengarage.com.au/2013/03/marina-abramovic-and-ulay/

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