WHAT'S YOUR "CURRENCY"?

Are you always AGREEABLE as a form of CURRENCY?

Human nature is infinitely intriguing.  Paying close attention, you may notice that certain individuals use what I like to call "currency" as a means to an end.

There are many forms of currency.  For example, "Joe" is described as loving, kind and always there for others but never asks for anything in return, and never burdens others with his concerns.  He is seen by many as a wonderful person, in deed.  However, underneath all the giving (of his time, advice, gifts, etc.) there may be a secret desire to have others like or love him.  He may not be consciously aware of this, but it is there and guiding his actions, all the same.

Do you give GIFTS as a form of CURRENCY?

Using this example, we can see that Joe's offer is not unconditional, although on the surface it may appear so, because he never overtly asks for anything in return.

Do you use HUMOR as a form of CURRENCY?

Ah, but he DOES want something; to be accepted, liked or even loved.  If he doesn't feel a return on his "investment", he may become resentful or quietly angry. Over time, this feeling of unreciprocated "kindness" builds and begins to show up in his passive aggressive actions.

What's your currency?  Challenging ourselves to look below the surface of our actions is healthy and enlightening.

Take the CURRENCY CHALLENGE.  Look at yourself; see what's there; do not judge what you see; grow from the discovery.  

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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THE GREAT SANDBOX OF KINDNESS

Greetings, dear friends!

I've been quiet for a while as I have been doing much shifting and healing.  During these times, although I continue to see clients, I find it very nurturing to lay low and simply "be" with my Self.  

Amazing revelations occur through the dream time and just as often, through inspirational reading.

Are you up for the CHALLENGE?

The one facet of my life that I have been continuously recreating through these shifts is my perception of the actions of those around me.  I am always in wonder of how a tiny shift in consciousness can COMPLETELY change the way I look at something - whether it be the behavior of another or world events.

This shift feels like it is going "upwards".  By that, I mean as my vibration raises through improved choices I feel an upward pull.  Is it a physical sensation?  Not sure, but I have always "felt" information, as well as "see" and "hear", etc.  I like the feeling.

The biggest change I see in myself is an ongoing ability to stay in a more neutral space with myself and others.  I now subscribe to "STAYING IN KINDNESS" as often as possible.

It wasn't always easy when I first began practicing this.  What was most evident was the fact that others who weren't prepared to stay in the "neutral zone" tried to bring me back into reaction, where it was most familiar.

It can be very tempting to fall back on old behavior, which I relied upon more years than not in the past. Verbally, I could keep duel with the very best of 'em. In fact, I thrived on it; it wasn't unusual to find ME leading the brigade for the cause of the day!  

Unfortunately, too many of my words flowed from a sharp tongue.  Yes, I could win a battle of wit, but I din't feel good afterward.  In fact, I never felt like I "won" anything. My willingness to do battle only pushed people away.  I could scrap, alright, but I was lonely.

Do you want to be RIGHT, or do you want to be HAPPY?

When staying in kindness, the objective shifts from needing to win to creating an amenable exchange. It feels good...period.  I step away from this type of peaceful communication feeling centered and calm.  

Throughout this last shift, I found that listening can be more powerful than speaking.  When I stay in KINDNESS, I hear more.  That gives me a more abundant tool box from which to properly respond (rather than react).  If the other person doesn't not like what I have to share, they may get upset with me.  That is simply their ego - their perception - at play.  I do my best to create space for their feelings/comments, but I no longer get sucked in.  

However, sometimes, the calmer and kinder I remain, the more frustrated the other person becomes. This is because their pain body (ego) is trying desperately to engage my ego for a "fuel-up".  I am stronger and a bit wiser these days; I don't play in sandboxes where argumentative people hang out. And, if I encounter this energy in my travels, I simply go to KINDNESS.

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

Shift Happens!