Showing posts with label judgment. Show all posts
Showing posts with label judgment. Show all posts

Monday, April 22, 2013

THOU SHALT NOT FORGIVE



Rabi David Wolpe’s article, TIME TO FORGIVE THE TSARNAEV BROTHERS?  NOT SO FAST. appeared in The Washington Post today.  In part, he said,

 

Forgiveness is irrelevant if it is only words. “I forgive him in my heart” means little. To watch something unfold on TV and then declare your forgiveness for the perpetrator is a cheap and empty declaration.” 

 

I wholeheartedly agree.  I do not believe in the traditional meaning of forgiveness. Forgiveness is not possible to achieve in the way that most define it. If we are told to forgive and can't find it within our heart, are we then a sinner? I say NO. 

If, however, we look for the reason why we have experienced such an event, we might just glean a deeper understanding of our own self, including and especially our fear. 

To say we forgive, yet to act in a manner completely opposite of that is inauthentic. Yet, we are driven by church, morals and family upbringing to aspire to such forgiveness.

Regularly I send gratitude out into the world for what I may have learned about myself through having the experience, even and particularly in the most trying of circumstances. I seek balance with the Universe as I seek to understand without judgment. 

Offering gratitude when I am hurting is not easy, but neither is saying "I forgive" when I don't really mean it or feel it.

 

As Wolpe says, “The beginning of sanity is the recognition that some acts are unforgivable."

 

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.
I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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Tuesday, February 19, 2013

CUTTING ENERGETIC / EMOTIONAL CORDS



“The difference between school and life?
In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, 
you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.”

~Tom Bodett

Cutting the Energetic Cords
As an Intuitive Healer (Clairvoyant Medium), I facilitate healing energy work. I look deeply into the past to get a glimpse of the ‘energetic cords’ that bind individuals to very unhealthy and, oftentimes destructive, behavior patterns. I then cut those cords as a means of release from that unconscious repetitive behavior. 

Utilizing my clairvoyant ability, I “see” mom and dad (going back to early childhood) doing their thing and how profoundly it affected us, especially prior to the age of five and before the development of intellectual capacity. Toxicity was absorbed and assimilated into our very cellular being as we headed out into the world to repeat behavior that continually failed to help us achieve our hearts desires. We often made choices with harsh consequences attached. We attracted unhealthy people as playmates and partners, we dealt with illness and depression and we allowed emotional and financial impulsivity to lead. We all deal - and struggle with - our own version of the Law of Attraction. No one is exempt from this, least of all me.

We are all teachers, demonstrated by how well we do something – or how poorly. Oftentimes, an outstanding teacher comes into our life to stir things up. They create nothing short of chaos in our lives. Inadvertently, or seemingly so, they teach us to speak up, how to proceed with love even when angry, how to take responsibility for our actions and how to be quiet and observe. Some teachers pay a high price in order to deliver these messages. They may experience loneliness, be ostracized or experience severe personal setbacks. Doing their “Soul Job” well, they stir our ego and push us into action. Our Soul is eternally grateful to these teachers. 

I truly believe that we choose these teachers for exactly who they are and how they behave. Of course, we have no conscious idea that we are doing so, but our Soul knows. Our brilliant Higher Self knows that circumstances will play out in a particular way, so we call in these experiences to teach us something very vital to our growth process. 

Releasing Energetic Anchors
When dealing with such a teacher, we have a stellar opportunity to do a quiet self-inquiry into why we chose this experience. By doing this, we place ourselves in a very powerful position – a stance that promotes growth rather than victimization, blame or shame. These emotions are all normal under stressful circumstances, however, I vote for alchemizing them into a golden opportunity to evolve by grasping the valuable and timely lesson(s) presented. 

Can you identify an experience with a Chaotic Teacher? What did you learn? If the answer is, “no” or “nothing”, not to worry. You will have as many experiences as necessary to help you learn what your Soul deems important. Once the lesson is learned you will no longer need to a repeat performance and you will be free from the energetic/emotional anchor that once held you back.
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Deep healing work consists of being able to detect the Soul's whispers, sharing messages in a way that are easily understood and absorbed by clients.   

An Intuitive Profiler, Healer, Medium, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, Connie identifies and cuts unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I am also available for Energetic Space Clearing projects, both business and personal residence.

619-573-5927
soulsync@cox.net

Monday, February 11, 2013

Discernment vs. Judgment



Understanding the difference between discernment and judgment is on my mind at the moment.
A very memorable dialogue took place a few years back at a private women’s retreat I held.  Heated and passionate views were voiced about which practice is “good” and which is “bad”.  There was even obvious confusion about which word went with what action.
If we look at the Miriam Webster definition of each, it is easy to see the difference.  But, is it as easy to know the difference when using these practices in our own lives?
DISCERNMENT:
the quality of being able to grasp and comprehend what is obscure


Which Way Do I Go?
Discernment is vital in our daily interaction with the world.  As you can see from the above definition, it pertains to being able to understand what is in front of us and the likely ramifications of making a specific decision or going in a certain direction. It is our Divine Right to Discern! 

Note:  It’s not uncommon to run into the occasional accusation that you have imposed your judgment, rather than using your Divine Right to Discern, especially if the other person doesn’t agree with your observation. However, getting quiet, going within, and getting in touch with that subtle, inner sense helps us distinguish between “yes, this feels right for me,” or “no, this doesn’t feel like it is in my best interest” will always steer you right.

JUDGMENT:
an opinion so pronounced
Fair is Fair, RIGHT?!

A judgment is simply a view expressed in a way that makes it sound like the only “truth”.  It may not be the truth at all, in fact, it is only an assessment, and generally favors our own beliefs over the beliefs of others involved.

Judgment is often used to control or dominate situations and/or others.  It is not used to make sound decisions, but rather to keep someone or something “in its place”.

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Connie Stewart, Intuitive Profiler, Medium
Energetic Space Clearing (Corporate and Private)
Cutting Energetic Cords to the Past 
619-573-5927


Tuesday, January 15, 2013

TRUTH



"Life is short, but truth works far and lives long; let us speak the truth."
 ~ Arthur Schopenhauer



                                                                                        photo by david troyan
Brilliance
                                                                       



The Truth.   

What is it, exactly?  What I believe to be true – and what you believe – may be entirely different, and in some cases, in downright opposition.  

So, is there one single Truth?

It’s challenging to stay out of judgment when someone else’s Truth differs from ours.  We believe so wholeheartedly in our own assessment that we struggle to make way for anything dissimilar.

Growth comes when we drop attachment to our own perception as the Only Truth. In fact, as perceptual beings, we are driven by our five senses.  Many folks believe if they can’t see it, hear it, touch it, smell it or taste it, well then it just doesn’t exist.  

Is this True?  

Are we Sure?


I am an Intuitive Profiler, Medium, Speaker and Writer.  I’m available for private sessions and classes by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency. 

I am also available for Energetic Space Clearing (business/residential) and group sessions.  


619-573-5927 ~ www.soulsync.com