ARE YOU A HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON?

THE HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON, a book written by Elaine Aron Ph.D., came into my life recently.  A Divine event for which I am personally grateful.

All my life, I have been regarded as “too sensitive” to stimulus that others take in stride.  Loud noises (hated those loud commercials on TV), strong smells, chemicals, ceratin foods, brash people, negative news reports, violence, horror, etc.  You get the picture. 

Can you relate?

My dad was not a HIGHLY SENSITIVE PERSON (HSP); he was the source of most of the insults and injuries to my sensitivities.  But, because most everyone else closest to me were also HSP, I had to find a way to cope, to survive and to help.  I threw myself in the path of caustic behavior to protect my mom, younger sister and brother.  This created quite a few dings in my already-vulnerable outer self.

Today, I use my HS nature to access my extreme psychic, medium and healing abilities.  I have found a useful and meaning way to live my life, although I still have to remember to be gentle with my responses to certain stimuli.  I’m aware that many others are still floundering, however, feeling less-than their bold counterparts, who rush in rarely considering the consequences.  We need those folks because they are the mountain movers of the world – they get things done.  We HSPs often come in is as visionaries and peacemakers.  We are often highly intuitive, even very psychic, and offer our sensitivities in service in a manner that is complementary to our true nature.  Our gift is that we do think about the consequences. 

The balance between the bold and the sensitive has been way off for a very long time.  The bold folks often think of us as sissies early in life, and tease and harass us into submission or hiding.  Their observation of we HSPs as being “different” is accurate, after all, there are many more of them than us... majority rules.  This is very traumatic for the HSP, feeling ostracized and believing that there is, indeed, something wrong with us.  Happily, some have found successful ways to cope and even overcome the stigma. 

It’s possible for we HSPs to begin to think of our sensitive nature as a gift and something divinely bestowed upon us.  We are not seeking to be considered better than our bold counterparts; we simply want to live, work and play side-by-side in harmony.

When I cut energetic cords to the past for clients, I am shown these sensitivities and am able to expand their knowledge of their life experience – and gifts - that their Soul chose.

Are you a HSP?

In her book, Dr. Aron asks a few qualifying questions:

Are you a highly sensitive person?

Do you have a keen imagination and vivid dreams?  

Is time alone each day as essential to you as food and water?  

Are you "too shy" or "too sensitive" according to others?  

Do noise and confusion quickly overwhelm you?  

If your answers are yes, you may be a Highly Sensitive Person (HSP).

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

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STAYING CONNECTED TO LOVE ENERGY

Sending LOVE energy to others, especially those we don’t like, we're more able to connect to the incredible rewards of LOVE energy in our own life.

Now, more than ever, with the multitude of challenges in our world, we will benefit from staying in our emotional LOVE center.  Remembering that we are LOVE and that our mind/ego thrives on fear will help us shift our perspective.

The vibrational frequency of the heart projects farther than that of the brain

It takes anywhere from three to seventy repetitions of engaging in a new habit to change an old one. Being fearful can become a habit; practice is the key and it takes discipline. We need to be patient as we go through this process.

The following are some practices that can be incorporated today:

Staying in LOVE center eliminates the need for asking for protection

• Meditation - even a few minutes of stillness everyday goes a long way

• Set an intention prior to every encounter for how you want to be

• Be conscious of your ego thoughts by checking in with how your body feels

• Use prayer to center yourself

• Stay fully present to the moment

• Create a mantra, eg. "I feel love"

This is where this practice really draws from Buddhist principles: being with what is.

This creates a space or gap. And from that gap, it is possible to notice the opportunity to make a shift or change the pattern to a state of being that is more centered, which would represent the possibility of more love, compassion and skillful action.

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Be an ALCHEMIST

AN INTUITIVE PROFILER, MEDIUM, SPEAKER AND WRITER, I AM AVAILABLE FOR PRIVATE SESSIONS (ONSITE AND REMOTE) BY APPOINTMENT ONLY. THROUGH INTUITIVE PROFILING, I IDENTIFY AND CUT UNHEALTHY ENERGETIC CORDS. RELEASING THESE NEGATIVE ENERGETIC CONNECTIONS ALLOWS US TO FUNCTION AT A HIGHER VIBRATIONAL FREQUENCY. I AM ALSO AVAILABLE FOR ENERGETIC SPACE CLEARING FOR BUSINESS, WHICH INCLUDES EMPLOYEE INTUITIVE PROFILING, AS WELL AS RESIDENTIAL CLEARING (ONSITE AND REMOTE).  CORPORATE KEYNOTE PRESENTATIONS AND GROUP SESSIONS ALSO AVAILABLE.

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THE BRAIN TRAIN

I had the opportunity to continue a higher education when I was young, but didn't.  Most of my friends hopped on the train and went off to college. Not me. I went back to school off and on as an adult, but no curriculum spoke to me. I felt like I had failed all those years ago. 

The School of Life

But, had I?

Since early childhood, I tapped into the right side of my brain … dreaming, imagining, drawing and designing … all things creative.  From the time I was kicked out of my home at 15, I ignored that side of my brain in favor of the left, more rational side of my gray matter.  I was in survival mode.

When I was age 40, I became reacquainted with my intuitive, creative side and haven’t looked back.  This is my higher education.  I know now that I chose (subconsciously) to forego over-development of my left brain in order to preserve and nurture the right side.  There is no degree to obtain, no letters behind my name.  

Spirit is my professor and continues to guide me to higher personal growth and love.

This is my school … The School of Life.

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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SPONTANEOUS HEALING

If you've ever felt…

• Left behind

• Unloved

• Wanted desperately to find true love

• Prayed with all your might to be healed or released from self-limiting or self- destructive behaviors

Virgin Mary

…then, this is for you.

I received a divine and spontaneous healing.

Life seems to evolve in a spiral. What we learn is never lost. When old patterns return, they pack less of a punch if we continue to cut limiting energetic cords along the way.

During a meditation a few years ago, I received a message from the inner masculine and feminine aspects of my Self. My innate masculine quite clearly said, “IT’S OK TO COME HOME NOW.” Within seconds, my inner feminine softly whispered, “I RELEASE YOU FROM THE FEAR OF BEING LEFT BEHIND”.

Later that evening during body work, I asked if something could be done to support restored hearing in my right ear. Pressure points were touched on my body as I declared a positive affirmation out loud.

All at once I began to feel very lightheaded and had to sit. Almost immediately, I began to feel that a HIGHER BEING wanted access to me. Many of you know that I regularly TRANCE CHANNEL* Quan Yin (Asian Mother of Mercy and Compassion) at my Diva Retreats.

*Trance channel: Allowing an ascended master to utilize my body as a vessel in order to deliver information and healing to those present.

This time, even though I do not consider myself religious, It was MOTHER MARY, known to many as VIRGIN MARY, who wanted to speak through me. I sensed the emergence of this Ascended Master as my body began to quiver; my breath quickened, my heart raced and I felt very emotional.

Because I wanted to consciously participate in my own healing, I chose to CHANNEL*, rather than trance channel her.

*Channeling: Much like a two-way conversation in which i am fully aware and “hear” the voice of the master rather than actually “becoming” the voice.

I began to cry, but not because I was sad or even overwhelmed by Mary’s exalted vibration. It was a spontaneous sobbing from a place so deep I’m not sure I knew it existed before that very moment. As the crying increased in intensity I curled into somewhat of a fetal position, sensing something old and very heavy was being purged or lifted from me. It was as though a DARK CLOUD WAS FLOATING OUT AND AWAY FROM ME.

Just as suddenly as the healing began, I experienced the most amazing serenity. I sat perfectly still in the quiet aftermath of what could only be described as a SPONTANEOUS DIVINE HEALING.

Celebrating endless possibilities.

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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RAVEN'S GIFTS: PAST-LIFE MEMORY

The spectacular mountain view quietly invited me to the second-story balcony.  But, it was something altogether different that drew my attention.

With each sunrise, something new lay upon the boards in the same spot. Small animal teeth and bones, shells, wings. I was mystified and captivated.

A large raven flew right past my bedroom window each morning at around five o’clock.  I “knew” it was very large because of the swooshing sound its wings made as it flapped majestically toward a destination, which was frequently becoming a small area on the balcony just outside the french doors.

Because my husband (now ex) was home on weekend mornings, he began to look for new tokens with me. One day, very quietly, he said, “You know this bird is leaving these things for you, don’t you?” I was shocked to hear those words. He had renounced all things religious or spiritual since being brought up in a home with a religious zealot. To have him recognize and acknowledge this phenomenon was very validating. 

I’d believed in the invisible since early childhood even if I hadn't put it into words and certainly not any form of spiritual practice. Now, this man who normally had no belief in such things, was seeing and feeling what I was experiencing – a goosebumply sense that the bird was preparing me for something new, something big, something unthought-of.

Entering my 40^th year, I was still resisting my inherent psychic abilities and had not even begun to investigate spirituality. Could this raven be bringing gifts to jog a past life memory?

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Raven Spirit Symbols:

Introspection, Self-knowledge, Courage, Magic, Mysteries, Shape-shifting, Creation, Divination, Wisdom, Truth, Answers, Secrets, Messages, Instruction, Change

Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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NEVERLAND: ADVENTURES IN ON-LINE DATING

What's Your Experience?

In my long-going quest for clarity, I have become a student of human nature, most particularly men.

As a single woman, I finally turned to on-line dating.  Friends tried it long before me and encouraged me to give it a go.  Maybe I would meet some nice guys, and perhaps even someone with whom I would spend time.

As time goes by, I find myself formulating a concept that I consider the epitome of the on-line dating experience.  If you’re still reading, get ready, ‘cause it ain’t pretty.

My first impression is that choosing someone to date online feels like looking through a catalog, where it’s not only easy, but often free to fantasize about all the beautiful things I want.  I might dog-ear any page that offers a potential treasure, yet I’m not actually making a commitment just yet.  I’ll keep looking, and looking, and yes, looking.

When we peruse the internet for the “ideal” mate, it’s really only a two-dimensional version of that person.  It’s anything but organic.  We see great photos (how old is THAT photo?) and read grandiose prose about the life and times of a particular person.  We mark them as a “favorite” and keep looking.  And, on it goes until we decide to actual contact someone, or someone reaches out to us.

Have You Ever Lied on an Online Sating Profile?

There are two basic types of men I have encountered through on-line dating thus far.  Let’s look at it using my Truth Tests via the coffee date/first meeting.  Here’s where it can get dicey. 

Truth test #1:  Does this man represent himself accurately?

Does this person look like their photo, have the same dimensions as represented, and is he approximately the same age as professed?   Very often, the answer is simply NO.  Red flag, wouldn't you say?  I call this, I’m Desperate and I Know It Man.

Floors me how people so blatantly misrepresent themselves.  I often wonder if they think no one will notice…

Truth test #2:   Has this man met himself?

There’s another kind of man, of which I am seeing more of lately.  He’s the Unaware Man.  This man really believes his own glorified press release.  He fancies himself tall, handsome, athletic and spiritual.  Oh, and he longs to be in a long-term, committed relationship.  Uh huh.

Of course, none of this rings true once I meet him, but I can tell he is committed to his story and is surprised when I’m not interested.  Sad, really.

The most resounding theme I've noticed is that most of the on-line crew of men seems to be carrying a sundry of unresolved issues and wounds from past relationships.  How do I know this (other than be exceedingly psychic), you ask?  Easy. 

When a man brings up his ex over and over again, he is NOT ready to enter a new relationship…period.  He has work to do.  I have heard men say that the quickest way to get over an ex is to get under someone new.  Crass, but I suppose many feel this is more exciting than doing inner work.  But, it doesn't take a rocket scientist to see that the same old pattern reemerges.  It always does.  For some it’s like buying time, prolonging the inevitable Come to Jesus Meeting with their own self.

By the way, I don’t believe for one moment that my observations apply solely to men.  This just happens to be my personal experience.  It’s time we all start looking at ourselves truthfully. 

There’s no shame in having a past.  It’s unnecessary, however, to continue to drag that baggage around and project it onto someone new. 

Take a peek inside.  There will be shadows, and there will be gems.  Upon which one will we choose to focus?

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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MYSTERY

It isn't a long shot to suspect that many people find what I do mysterious.

At one time long ago, it was a mystery to me, also.  Long ago.

What Gifts are Hidden in Your Mystery?

Since early childhood, I played among the stars, longed to go to Sister Moon, and saw into the nature of those around me.  I read everything available about UFO activity (thank you, Time Life Series!).  Not your normal kid stuff, but it was my world and I had no idea that not everyone saw what I saw.

When I was in my mid-twenties I began to meet people who were openly psychic.  I was more than fascinated and longed to be in their presence.  I didn’t understand that I possessed the same abilities, but I knew what they did was mysteriously special. 

Today, I delve into the mystery for myself and others.  It never gets old.  In fact, just the opposite.  Each journey is fresh and invigorating and I am always delighted with what is uncovered.  The truth really does set us free.

Every 24-hours period is a magnificent mystery.  I love going to sleep at night so that I can drop into the dreamtime, where I often “meet” people who will manifest in my daily waking life, or meet those who have crossed over (at times, they ask me to deliver a message to someone they love).  I do lots of healing work while I sleep, often visiting people in far-away places.

Each new morning holds the opportunity to meet with clients who want to know much more about who they truly are in this life.  Having the opportunity to utilize my mystery, I cut energetic cords in order to release individuals from the psychic “gunk” accumulated throughout life; the stuff that weighs us down and causes us to become someone other than who we were born to be.  We might call it a mystery how instantaneous lightness washes over us when cords are cut.  The energetic charge to that person, place or situation begins to dissipate eventually having no charge.

We all have some form of mystery waiting to be explored.  May you joyfully embrace yours; the gems of your gifts and talents are surely hidden there!

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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