Wednesday, July 17, 2013

WHAT'S YOUR "CURRENCY"?

Are you always AGREEABLE as a form of CURRENCY?
Human nature is infinitely intriguing.  Paying close attention, you may notice that certain individuals use what I like to call "currency" as a means to an end.

There are many forms of currency.  For example, "Joe" is described as loving, kind and always there for others but never asks for anything in return, and never burdens others with his concerns.  He is seen by many as a wonderful person, in deed.  However, underneath all the giving (of his time, advice, gifts, etc.) there may be a secret desire to have others like or love him.  He may not be consciously aware of this, but it is there and guiding his actions, all the same.

Do you give GIFTS as a form of CURRENCY?
Using this example, we can see that Joe's offer is not unconditional, although on the surface it may appear so, because he never overtly asks for anything in return.

Do you use HUMOR as a form of CURRENCY?
Ah, but he DOES want something; to be accepted, liked or even loved.  If he doesn't feel a return on his "investment", he may become resentful or quietly angry. Over time, this feeling of unreciprocated "kindness" builds and begins to show up in his passive aggressive actions.

What's your currency?  Challenging ourselves to look below the surface of our actions is healthy and enlightening.

Take the CURRENCY CHALLENGE.  Look at yourself; see what's there; do not judge what you see; grow from the discovery.  
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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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Tuesday, July 16, 2013

THE GREAT SANDBOX OF KINDNESS

Greetings, dear friends!

I've been quiet for a while as I have been doing much shifting and healing.  During these times, although I continue to see clients, I find it very nurturing to lay low and simply "be" with my Self.  

Amazing revelations occur through the dream time and just as often, through inspirational reading.

Are you up for the CHALLENGE?
The one facet of my life that I have been continuously recreating through these shifts is my perception of the actions of those around me.  I am always in wonder of how a tiny shift in consciousness can COMPLETELY change the way I look at something - whether it be the behavior of another or world events.

This shift feels like it is going "upwards".  By that, I mean as my vibration raises through improved choices I feel an upward pull.  Is it a physical sensation?  Not sure, but I have always "felt" information, as well as "see" and "hear", etc.  I like the feeling.

The biggest change I see in myself is an ongoing ability to stay in a more neutral space with myself and others.  I now subscribe to "STAYING IN KINDNESS" as often as possible.

It wasn't always easy when I first began practicing this.  What was most evident was the fact that others who weren't prepared to stay in the "neutral zone" tried to bring me back into reaction, where it was most familiar.

It can be very tempting to fall back on old behavior, which I relied upon more years than not in the past. Verbally, I could keep duel with the very best of 'em. In fact, I thrived on it; it wasn't unusual to find ME leading the brigade for the cause of the day!  

Unfortunately, too many of my words flowed from a sharp tongue.  Yes, I could win a battle of wit, but I din't feel good afterward.  In fact, I never felt like I "won" anything. My willingness to do battle only pushed people away.  I could scrap, alright, but I was lonely.

Do you want to be RIGHT, or do you want to be HAPPY?
When staying in kindness, the objective shifts from needing to win to creating an amenable exchange. It feels good...period.  I step away from this type of peaceful communication feeling centered and calm.  

Throughout this last shift, I found that listening can be more powerful than speaking.  When I stay in KINDNESS, I hear more.  That gives me a more abundant tool box from which to properly respond (rather than react).  If the other person doesn't not like what I have to share, they may get upset with me.  That is simply their ego - their perception - at play.  I do my best to create space for their feelings/comments, but I no longer get sucked in.  

However, sometimes, the calmer and kinder I remain, the more frustrated the other person becomes. This is because their pain body (ego) is trying desperately to engage my ego for a "fuel-up".  I am stronger and a bit wiser these days; I don't play in sandboxes where argumentative people hang out. And, if I encounter this energy in my travels, I simply go to KINDNESS.

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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Thursday, June 27, 2013

PAULA DEEN - MERCI BEAUCOUP!

Paula Deen - THE TODAY SHOW
The frenzy around Paula Dean at this time is indicative of our need to distract ourselves from governing our own life and actions.

It startles me how quick we, as a society, are willing to stand in judgment of others. Many of us  fall from grace from time to time, only not in the public eye.

When we begin to a acknowledge that everyone is a teacher, some because of how well they do something, and others by how poorly, we may choose to learn something from Ms. Dean.

She stands in the spotlight reminding us to be ever-thoughtful in our speech and our behavior toward others and to remain humble in the throes of success.

If Ms. Dean is paying attention, she, too, can learn something. Thinking/speaking/behaving in the way we were raised is not always appropriate. Changing with the times keeps us relevant.
Perhaps this upset will offer her a new way to "be" -  a higher road with a new definition of love and respect for all beings.

Thank you, Ms. Dean for standing up as a powerful teacher!  The recognition you are receiving isn't the kind in which you are accustomed, however, your experiences, and the lessons you provide,  are valuable and rich, nonetheless.


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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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Thursday, May 23, 2013

I WAS A JURY FOREMAN

Jury Box
A judge declared a mistrial in the sentencing phase of Jodi Arias' Arizona murder trial today, after the jury could not agree on whether to sentence Arias to death or to life in prison for murdering her ex-boyfriend, Travis Alexander, in 2008.

Several years ago, I had the opportunity to be on a jury panel and was elected jury foreman by my peers.  

Back then, it was difficult to contain my joy.  You see, I'd always known that I wanted to experience formal deliberation.  I know I have a JUSTICE theme in my SOUL!  I believe I'd make a pretty good attorney or investigator.  But, I digress...

Organization

  • My duty, as the foreman, was to establish a procedure for the deliberations.  I had to decide  how the evidence and the points made by the attoreys during the trial was to be reviewed, ensuring that all pertinent information was covered and that no important evidence was left out of the discussion. I also asked for clarification from the judge concerning points of the law.


    Mediation

    As foreman, I led the discussion of the various points of the case.  In some instances, disputes arose between jury members who disagreed on interpretation of the evidence, or even on the guilt or innocence of the defendant.  I had to intervene and attempt to resolve the dispute so that the deliberation process stayed on track.

    My panel wanted to declare us a hung jury after only three hours of deliberation.  I did my best at helping them see we were there to do a job and it was our civic duty to truly work toward an agreement.  We hung in there until we reached a verdict, which in our case took three days.

Polling the Jury 

  • From the Movie, "12 Angry Men"
    When I felt that all of the evidence has been thoroughly reviewed, I took a vote of the jury members as to the defendant's guilt or innocence. At first, the jury did not reach a unanimous verdict, so I asked jury members to explain their votes to determine where they differed. This process continued until a unanimous verdict was reached.  

    Notifying the Judge

    When deliberations concluded and the jury reached a unanimous verdict on all charges, I sent word to the judge that a verdict had been reached. The judge then reconvened the court so that the verdict could be announced.  


    Announcing the Verdict

  • Once court was back in session, the judge asked me, as the jury foreman, to rise and announce the verdict. The judge read each charge against the defendant and I responded with "Guilty". 

    Knowing that someone's fate is in your hand is sobering. Often I don't see the justice in so-called justice.  Having the opportunity to serve on a jury panel was a humbling and unforgettable opportunity. 
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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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Monday, May 20, 2013

HEALING with MOTHER LOVE

Many of you know that besides being a clairvoyant and a medium, I am a healer and a mentor.  I have been given the gift of seeing, hearing, sensing and healing in multidimensional ways.

All those years ago, when I first had the privilege of working with my dear mentor in the New Orleans area, she urged me to go deeper, go all the way to the SOUL.  She was adamant that no healing can take place at the psychic level alone.  
Working with the BODY SUIT

I have unfailingly followed her sage advice and now pass it along with reverence to my own students.

The most exciting aspect of my journey is the fact that I continue to learn new things about myself.  Every once in a while, I become complacent and coast, or rest, on my laurels.  Fortunately, if that happens,  The Universe does its thing and drop kicks my butt.

The Vessel
I have been dealing with an intestinal issue for several months.  Although I've eaten healthy for the last decade, years of too much wheat and refined sugar, beginning in early childhood,  do not support my current vibration.  So, it's a little like a war between light and dark.  The old faction wants to keep the reign, but the new says NO WAY!  

With the help of three dear friends, one a Naturopathic Doctor/Acupuncturist, one a whiz at Meridian Testing and the other my closest friend, I have found some answers and have a healing plan of action in place.

If you're still reading, here's where the BIG AHA moment comes in...

I am a researcher at heart, and so as I often do, I was browsing the net for information.  I came across a site that spoke highly of a supplement called COLOSTRUM, which is rich in protective and regulating factors necessary to promote health and vitality.   I decided to add this to my daily regime.

Still with me...?

Later the same day, I got quiet and did a card reading for myself.  I use the Sacred Path cards, which is a beautiful oracle deck based on Native American spirituality.  I laid the cards out slowly and thoughtfully.  Suddenly, the cards began to communicate with me.  

The final card was called RETURNING HOME - The Shawl.  This card speaks of coming home to the arms of Mother Earth and being wrapped in her nurturing love.

Mother Love
I began to cry.  This card opened up something very deeply buried within me.  I had missed out on Mother Love.   Although I have been intellectually aware of this for many, many years, it had never hit me this way.  Now, I was FEELING THE PAIN.

My mom was a schizophrenic and was never very affectionate toward me and did not protect me from my abusive, alcoholic dad.   She, did however, avidly protect my only sister and brothers.  The result is that I took the brunt of the physical, mental, emotional and sexual abuse.  This is my karmic journey; I truly realize how it was my choice at a SOUL LEVEL and how it plays into my path.  


Bringin' it home now...

Later that same day (yes, this all happened in one day!), I was on the phone with my dear friend, who is wise beyond her years.  I mentioned my emotional response to the oracle card.  It was easy enough to understand my reaction, even though, as I often hear from clients, I thought I'd already dealt with the majority of mother issues.

Heal the Spirit, Heal the Body
I shared the research I'd done that morning and how I would add Colostrum to my daily regime.  Previously, she'd mentioned that she felt that there was something my body was not receiving; something that was key in healing my gut.  She reiterated.  I asked if she had any knowledge of the supplement I'd just discovered.

She began to relate her experience of the birth of her children and how she breast fed each baby.  She educated me on the pre-milk production of colostrum, which only lasts for a small period of time after childbirth.  This powerful fluid protects newborns as they come into our world of bacteria and viruses.  

In other words, it is a mother's innate way of LOVING and PROTECTING her baby.  

MOTHER LOVE...  OMG!  

Without consciously realizing it, I am seeking Mother Love to heal my body.  When this is absent in early childhood, it has a major impact.  I have mothered many throughout my life, starting with siblings.  I get it and a much deeper level than ever before.  I am JOYOUS!

Balancing my physical vessel began in 2003 and continues.  Developing my psychic gifts was a piece of cake compared to dealing with this 3-D body.  But, I know it's all part of the package!

The last time I dealt with big mother issues was immediately preceding  the gift of mediumship, some 15 years ago.  I sense that a higher level of healing abilities awaits me on the other side of this jaunt.  

Did I mention that I am JOYOUS?!

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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Friday, May 17, 2013

PAT ROBERTSON, DIDN'T YOU GET THE MEMO?




“Well, he’s a man.”  commented televangelist Pat Robertson (700 Club), when recently  responding to a female viewer asking for help regarding her cheating husband.
His best advice:   Get over the infidelity and provide a better home so he doesn't “wander.”
What did you just say?!  I think I just threw up in my mouth a little...
N.T.O. (not too obvious)
Apparently, this is just one in a long list of other comments/ recommendations Mr. R. offers to women in similar relationship situations:
"Stop focusing on the adultery and instead ponder, “Does he provide a home for you to live in, does he provide food for you to eat, does he provide clothes for you to wear, is he nice to the children…is he handsome?”

"Do more to prevent your husband from cheating: “But recognize also, like it or not, males have a tendency to wander a little bit and what you want to do is make a home so wonderful that he doesn't want to wander.”
Earlier this year Mr. R. was criticized when he suggested a woman’s looks might be to blame for her marital problems. He told a story about a woman who asked a reverend how to stop her husband’s drinking problem.

“She was awful looking. The preacher looked at her and said, ‘Madam, if I was married to you I’d start to drink too,’” Mr. R. said.


Slap some butter on it and call it a biscuit!  

Shifting Paradigms
I could go on a rant and discuss my thoughts on this guy's archaic attitude, but instead I'll share a little about the shift in paradigm; the shift of ages.

We left the Age of Pisces and entered into the Age of Aquarius in 2012.  It is said to last some 2,150 years.  This should give Mr. R. oodles of time to catch up.  
The energy of the two influences is vastly different.  I'll discuss this more in a future blog, but for now, think of it this way:

Age of Pisces = Hierarchy, masculine dominated
Age of Aquarius = Equality, masculine and feminine walk side-by- side
Clearly, Mr. R. did not get the memo.  That's OK.  We all grow in our own time and at a pace  we choose.  He may just come back in his next life as a Stepford wife!
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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

Shift Happens!