OBLIGATION: LOVE or FEAR?

OBLIGATION:  LOVE or FEAR?

 

Happiness cannot thrive within the prison of obligation.
Live wild, life free, live as master of your own fate.

- Jonathan Lockwood Huie

Do you remember the flurry of excitement at the holidays when you were just a child?  There is something special in the air at this time of year. 

 

Unless, of course, you find yourself getting stressed out for any number of reasons:  extra long hours at work, not enough money to cover your holiday expenses, illness, family get togethers ...

 

 OBLIGATION!

Although many are quick to defend “obligation” as a loved-based attitude and/or action, it is actually based on fear.

To demonstrate this claim, take a look at this list of common fears, which often lead to obligation.  How many do you identify with (from mild to strong)?

I am afraid of:

•    Losing my family member's approval
•    Getting my family member angry with me
•    Getting the “silent treatment”
•    My family member getting into danger or legal trouble
•    My family member self-harming or attempting suicide
•    My family member getting depressed
•    Being thought of as “selfish”
•    Taking responsibility
•    Being found out
•    Being a bad son/daughter/parent
•    Fear of abandonment
•    Fear of retaliation
•    People thinking that I’m a bad person
•    Loss of love/friendship/companionship
•    Losing contact with or custody of my children
•    Being alone or living by myself
•    Being called names or being embarrassed in public
•    Being threatened
•    Becoming depressed
•    Failing to live up to expectations
•    Confrontation
•    Getting angry
•    Losing control

 

“When our sense of obligation is stronger than our sense of self-respect and self-caring, blackmailers quickly learn how to take advantage”

- Forward and Frazier, 1997

SETTING BOUNDARIES:  A HEALTHY OPPORTUNITY

Frankly, the only obligation that feels right to me is the one to Self. Taking care of and loving our Self  is vital.  Setting emotional boundaries is of the utmost importance and eliminates being taken advantage of. 

The quickest way to establish boundaries is to be consistent.  Mean what you say!

 

Remember, in order to be used, we must allow it (albeit, at the subconscious level).  It may not feel like a choice, but I assure you, it is! 

Wishing you the happiest of holiday season, complete with LOVE!

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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WHAT WILL YOU LEAVE BEHIND?

Our heirs inherit the legacy of our personality. 

Let that thought linger for just a moment. Our children, spirit-children and younger relatives all come into what we leave behind both emotionally and energetically. 

What will you leave behind?

What this means: 

We have firmly imprinted the younger generation with  wounds we carry form our own childhood.  Period. 

We may very well be unaware of the impact our cluttered past has on our children.  Many are simply trying to survive and may be stuck in a revolving door of fear, which often manifests as anger, relationship issues, substance abuse, depression, physical illness, career challenges and overall lack of well-being.

Cutting the cords to the past

Cutting energetic cords (releasing toxic people, places and events) to the past is a powerful game-changer!  During an intuitive healing session, my goal is to explore and discover, then sever these cords.  It is profound energy work at the *subtle energy level and can be life-altering.  Many report feeling lighter instantly!  When confronted with people and/or situations that formerly caused a great deal of stress and tension, we may notice no further "charge", thus freeing us from undesirable and unhealthy emotional reaction.

What legacy will you leave the generation following you?

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* Subtle energy is considered tenuous or rarefied energy.  To many, it is evasive, mysterious and hard to grasp or trace.  As a healer (a clairvoyant medium who has the ability to stimulate energy), I am able to "see" this energy, which allows me to release or cut away that which no longer serves the highest good.

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

Shift Happens!

DIVINE DISCONTENT

Divine Discontent can be quite useful.  It can be the rocket fuel needed to get you moving again and it can stimulate your creative juices.

What Moves You?

When this energy is channeled in a positive direction, it becomes a natural step in a direction that supports your Soul’s calling.  It can help you weed out those things in life that distract you from your heart’s desires.

When not acknowledged as such, however, an imbalance can occur.  Symptoms are: lack of motivation, fatigue, trying new things (jobs, locations) and nothing holding your attention, low-grade depression, frustration, irritability, nothing has meaning, soul weariness, a feeling of having a half empty heart, cynical attitude, heaviness and pressure set in, physical discomforts, feeling discouraged, overwhelmed and rarely having fun. It is natural to have these symptoms come and go during the course of your life but as the exception and not the rule.

If you feel that these symptoms hang on, it may be time to look at root causes.  These causes more often than not, began in your earliest childhood and show up as energetic cords connecting you to old negative imprints.

These cords can be cut once you realize and accept the fact that you are stuck.  Remember, being stuck is merely a symptom of those energetic cords/early imprints.  Once the cords are cut, it is as if the very anchors that once held you back are instantly gone…and you are FREE to move in the direction of your truest desire.

If you have unsuccessfully tried to free yourself from emotional malaise, it may be helpful to know that even though you've come to intellectually understand the nature of your discontent, you are likely still tethered to family-of-origin beliefs that do not serve you (aka, energetic cords).

Help is available!  The very essence of my work, cutting energetic cords, is a healing process very near and dear to my heart.  We are ALL stuck at one time or another.  Now that you have this information, being stuck moves from unconscious to conscious…you now have a choice! 

CONNIE STEWART: In Sync With the Stars

www.soulsync.com

The San Diego Uptown News recently published an article, “In Sync With the Stars”, about my extra-ordinary paranormal psychic (healing) abilities and how my abusive and traumatic childhood (in the deep South) actually played a pivotal role in my spiritual and professional life today. 

Come into my eyes,
and look at me through them,
for I have chosen a home
far beyond what eyes can see. 

~ Rumi

You can pick up a copy around town or simply click on this link http://sduptownnews.com/in-sync-with-the-stars/  to read this beautifully written article by Celene Adams.

I invite and encourage your comments both on the SD Uptown News website and directly to me.

Celene is the author of the series, A Whim and a Prayer, which profiles the trials and triumphs of entrepreneurs whose businesses have evolved out of their passions and life experience. You can read the expanded version of this article on her website.

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Psychic-Medium, Mentor, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing for business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

Shift Happens!

HORROR WITHIN FOUR WALLS: Energetic Space Clearing

“Kill Your Family!”

Residential Energetic Space Clearing

Actual Case Synopsis

 

Is your home hosting entities ?

 “Kill your family NOW!”  In late 2012 I received an emergency call for help.  a teenager was hearing voices. 

The teen was constantly fighting the commands in his head; his parents were terribly afraid he was losing the battle.

“He may be schizophrenic; it runs in our family.”   Mom, clearly desperate, needed help before it was too late.

Family Home/ Male Teen’s Bedroom:

Stepping into the teen’s room, I felt stifled.  It was dark; I had trouble breathing.  I was drawn to extreme anxiety and sadness in the bathroom and  I felt hostility coming from the far right corner.  His girlfriend then confided that the young man often cried in the bathroom and complained about a creepy feeling in that particular corner.

Assessment:  Entity

I felt the presence of an entity in the bedroom.  As defined in the Miriam-Webster Dictionary an entity is something that has separate and distinct existence.  It is an energy that does not belong to you, but as host (no matter how unwilling or unknowing), you become home and survival to this parasitical presence.

As soon as I closed my eyes, I “saw” the entity.  He was crouched over as though he was prepared to attack.  His arms were held high, arched and ready to pounce.  He appeared very angry and reeked with rage.  

“GET OUT OF MY HOUSE OR I WILL GET MY GUN AND KILL YOU!”

 Entities range from bothersome to extremely harmful, and in many cases, you may not even know they are in your space.  However, if you’ve recently experienced some or all of the following symptoms, which can come about quickly or over a period of time, you have quite likely become a host.

·       Agitation

·       Depression

·       Craving for sugar, alcohol or other unusual  

              substances as never before

·       Lack of sleep and/or nightmares

·       Unexplainable illness, aches and pains

·       Arguing with others in the home

Back Story:

In my opinion, the young man is not schizophrenic, but rather, very sensitive and able to pick up on the vibration and frequency of the old man’s energy.  He is also feeling the anger and mistaking it, as well as the desire to kill the family, for his own. 

When the elderly mother and father of my client’s husband needed assistance due to Grandfather’s Alzheimer’s disease, his family moved in.  After an add-on to the home, the back patio, where Grandpa spent most days alone, became the teenager’s room. 

The old man still believed he was out on his quiet patio only to be disturbed by the annoying teenager.  Because he had Alzheimer’s disease upon his death, he didn’t recognize his own family, therefore, intended to protect his property by shooting and killing the intruders! 

Grandpa didn’t realize he was deceased, which is so often the case in “hauntings”.  I invited the entity (ghost) to walk into the light with me as a way to remove him from this world and help transition into another dimension (some call it Heaven/Hell) where only the energy of the Soul remains (no body).

Result:

Grandpa crossed over to greet his beloved with no further ado.  I could breathe much easier.  The heaviness I’d felt was gone;  the house felt lighter and energetically cleaner.  The young man’s bedroom was no longer ominous, but now peaceful.

That might have been the end of the story.  It isn’t. 

I’ll write again soon and let you know what happened next (an astonishing look into human nature). 

Truth IS stranger than fiction…