WHEN A HEART BREAKS IT DON'T BREAK EVEN

When people break up, whether it is a romantic love relationship, a friendship or even a business partnership there is often pain.  

“I'm still alive but I'm barely breathing
Just prayed to a God that I don't believe in
'Cause I got time while she got freedom
'Cause when a heart breaks, no, it don't break even”

The Script, Breakeven

Why is it that in some cases the one who wishes to break away doesn’t even bother to say goodbye, much less offer an explanation for the departure?  What happens to the love and respect that once (appeared to) burned so brightly?  Today, the catchy term, "ghosting" is used.  It refers to ending a romantic relationship by cutting off all contact and ignoring the former partner’s attempts to reach out.

I’ve given this topic lots of thought over the last few years.  Running away is easiest, at least in the moment.  No confrontation, no excuses, no nothing.  A vanishing act, however un-messy for the runner, can create a great deal of confusion for the one left behind.  Wondering what went wrong or what could have been different, the “dumpee” may feel very confused, responsible and hurt.

Relationships grow and morph.  Sometimes the participants evolve together and sometimes they don’t.  The one who leaves unannounced is often the one who refuses to evolve through the connection.  They may be clinging to old familiar behavior patterns that produce the same results each time.  Unable to see the cause and effect principle at play, they blame and run.

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There is a better way!  Taking personal responsibility for our words and actions is a great start.  Asking ourselves this crucial question, “Why did I magnetize this person/situation into my life?” is a powerful way to move forward with LOVE and KINDNESS.  

People part; it happens.  What if, rather than running, we expressed our true feelings and THEN left with love still intact?  It may feel like a different love, more friendly than romantic, for example, but LOVE is LOVE.  It is the goodness that fills our hearts, the gratitude for the unique experience with this particular person, the gentleness and compassion that allows us to show empathy for others.  What if…

Pictured above:  Marina Abramovic and Ulay started an intense love story in the 70s, performing art out of the van they lived in. When they felt the relationship had run its course, they decided to walk the Great Wall of China, each from one end, meeting for one last big hug in the middle and never seeing each other again.

At her 2010 MoMa retrospective Marina performed ‘The Artist Is Present’ as part of the show, where she shared a minute of silence with each stranger who sat in front of her. Ulay arrived without her knowing and this is what happened.

http://zengarage.com.au/2013/03/marina-abramovic-and-ulay/

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Healer, Intuitive Profiler, Medium, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I also perform Energetic Space Clearing in your business (staff profiles included) or home.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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PSYCHIC KNOWING

She Had "It"

There are many ways to perceive information other than through the five senses (sight, hearing, taste, touch, smell). 

Multidimensionally (existing outside of the five physical senses), many receive information via clairvoyance (clear seeing), clairaudience (clear hearing), clairsentience (clear sesning), clairgustance (clear taste) or through claircognizance (clear knowing) or any combination if you are skilled in multiple modalities, as am I.  

She Had "It"

Often times, these abilities run in bloodlines.  My maternal grandmother, my mom, me and now my granddaughter.  I have no hard evidence that the ancestral women in my family possessed these abilities, but I have a very strong sense that they did.

The KNOWING is considered claircognizance (clear knowing).  The receiver will get an intuitive “hit” as an instant download of information that needs no processing or interpretation.  This is my primary ability, although, as mentioned, I utilize all of the above, including mediumship (the ability to connect with the deceased).

I Have "It"

Not all people who experience psychic phenomena are able to tap into all of the abilities described above.  Most seem to have a propensity toward one or two areas and tend to stick with those modalities.  Of all my abilities, claircognizance is the most profound and has brought the most challenges.

More than once (too many instances), when I was younger and pre-healer, the information I received was discounted by those closest to me.  My family was either uninterested or fearful, my husband at the time seem threatened.  This was a big pill to swallow; I was so excited – elated – by the fact that Spirit was communicating with me!  I knew I shouldn’t take it personally, but I did.  I felt that so much love flowing through the psychic pipeline and I just couldn’t understand why my peeps didn’t want any part of it. 

She Has "It"

If you have the KNOWING, trust it.  Those around you may not understand, or even try vehemently to discount your information.  A good way to handle this is to keep the information to yourself in the beginning.  As time goes by and you have been able to gain evidence to support your insight, it will become less important that others believe you.  You will believe YOU because you trust your source – Spirit.

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Healer, Psychic Profiler, Medium, Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Psychic Insights, I identify and cut unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency and reduces or eliminates previous emotional charge.

Available for current and cold case criminal investigations.

619-573-5927 ~ soulsync@cox.net

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LIAR, LIAR…PANTS ON FIRE!

Integrity is much more than being honest.   

Integrity deals with consistency;

It’s not only about telling the truth in front of people,

but whether we remain consistently truthful 

even when nobody is listening.

You’re probably familiar with the “little white lie (LWL)”.  Most of us have used this tactic at one time or another and largely because we didn’t want to hurt someone’s feelings…or so we told ourselves.

 If we lose our honor, we lose our self

We ARE our word and a half-truth is still a whole lie.

Those in our circle won’t be upset that we lied to them, but that they can no longer believe us.  

OUCH!

 

When I finally made a commitment (to myself) that I would no longer take the easy way out by telling the LWL, I began to notice how many people still relied upon it.  It was everywhere; in fact, it was so prevalent that when I bucked up and told the truth, I got looked at as though I had three heads!   

OUCH!

The truth is nothing to fear.  We can chose to follow our inner compass and make a commitment to go beyond where we have ever been.  

The Five Levels of Truth-Telling: 

First, you tell the truth to yourself about yourself.

Then you tell the truth to yourself about another.

At the third level, you tell the truth about yourself to another.

Then you tell your truth about another to that other.

And finally, you tell the truth to everyone about everything.

~  Neale Donald Walsch Conversations with God (Book 2)

CUTTING ENERGETIC / EMOTIONAL CORDS

“The difference between school and life?

In school, you're taught a lesson and then given a test. In life, 

you're given a test that teaches you a lesson.”

~Tom Bodett

Cutting the Energetic Cords

As an Intuitive Healer (Clairvoyant Medium), I facilitate healing energy work. I look deeply into the past to get a glimpse of the ‘energetic cords’ that bind individuals to very unhealthy and, oftentimes destructive, behavior patterns. I then cut those cords as a means of release from that unconscious repetitive behavior. 

Utilizing my clairvoyant ability, I “see” mom and dad (going back to early childhood) doing their thing and how profoundly it affected us, especially prior to the age of five and before the development of intellectual capacity. Toxicity was absorbed and assimilated into our very cellular being as we headed out into the world to repeat behavior that continually failed to help us achieve our hearts desires. We often made choices with harsh consequences attached. We attracted unhealthy people as playmates and partners, we dealt with illness and depression and we allowed emotional and financial impulsivity to lead. We all deal - and struggle with - our own version of the Law of Attraction. No one is exempt from this, least of all me.

We are all teachers, demonstrated by how well we do something – or how poorly. Oftentimes, an outstanding teacher comes into our life to stir things up. They create nothing short of chaos in our lives. Inadvertently, or seemingly so, they teach us to speak up, how to proceed with love even when angry, how to take responsibility for our actions and how to be quiet and observe. Some teachers pay a high price in order to deliver these messages. They may experience loneliness, be ostracized or experience severe personal setbacks. Doing their “Soul Job” well, they stir our ego and push us into action. Our Soul is eternally grateful to these teachers. 

I truly believe that we choose these teachers for exactly who they are and how they behave. Of course, we have no conscious idea that we are doing so, but our Soul knows. Our brilliant Higher Self knows that circumstances will play out in a particular way, so we call in these experiences to teach us something very vital to our growth process. 

Releasing Energetic Anchors

When dealing with such a teacher, we have a stellar opportunity to do a quiet self-inquiry into why we chose this experience. By doing this, we place ourselves in a very powerful position – a stance that promotes growth rather than victimization, blame or shame. These emotions are all normal under stressful circumstances, however, I vote for alchemizing them into a golden opportunity to evolve by grasping the valuable and timely lesson(s) presented. 

Can you identify an experience with a Chaotic Teacher? What did you learn? If the answer is, “no” or “nothing”, not to worry. You will have as many experiences as necessary to help you learn what your Soul deems important. Once the lesson is learned you will no longer need to a repeat performance and you will be free from the energetic/emotional anchor that once held you back.

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Deep healing work consists of being able to detect the Soul's whispers, sharing messages in a way that are easily understood and absorbed by clients.   

An Intuitive Profiler, Healer, Medium, Speaker and Writer, I am available for private sessions by appointment only. Through Intuitive Profiling, Connie identifies and cuts unhealthy energetic cords. Releasing these negative energetic connections allows you to function at a higher vibrational frequency.

I am also available for Energetic Space Clearing projects, both business and personal residence.

619-573-5927

www.soulsync.com

soulsync@cox.net